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    Raising Constructive Tension Early

    You will practise how to raise real issues early, before frustration builds or the conversation turns into conflict. The programme helps you say one clear thing about the issue, stay steady when emotions rise, and avoid softening the point so much that it disappears. By the end, you will be better able to name tension without making it personal, respond calmly, and deal with disagreement while it is still workable.

    A colleague's work has a problem no one has mentioned. You're the one who noticed it.

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    15Skill
    Signals
    Research Prevalence
    No. 6

    17.7%

    of the 11,359 leadership cases in our research

    Report 01, draft

    Why it's hard

    Most people notice the issue long before they say it. There never seems to be a good moment: the project is busy, the relationship is new, it might sort itself out.

    So it waits, and resentment builds. When it finally comes out, it comes out all at once, with months of frustration attached to one small comment.

    Raising it early means saying one thing, now, while it's still small enough to fix, without worrying that you'll look like you're not a team player.

    What we look for

    Here is an example of some of the Skill Signals that we teach you how to implement and then test for as you progress with this skill

    Skill Signal Groups
    • Getting it said
    • Keeping it specific
    • Keeping the relationship
    • Landing it
    Some sample Skill Signals

    1. You named the issue in your first two turns

    2. You named a specific instance

    3. You invited their view before defending yours

    A sample of 15 Skill Signals. The assessment also looks for behaviours we don’t list.

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    One four-minute conversation from Raising Constructive Tension Early. See your initial feedback straight away, then save your results with a free account.

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    How your practice stays private

    Questions about this moment.

    Individual contributor: High; First-line manager: Core; Mid-level leader: Core; Executive: Core. Low relevance means the moment is not offered at that level.

    It appears in 17.7% of 11,359 real leadership cases in draft Research Report 01.

    The assessment uses 15 observational markers across 4 groups. This page shows only a small sample, because held-out assessment depends on some behaviours remaining unseen.